Saturday, December 31, 2011
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Nice People!
Time has flown! That the program is already 75% over, that classes are officially finished, that I have lived in 3 countries and studied at 3 universities over the last year and a half, and that soon I'll have a masters degree and get a job, it's all a bit amazing and exciting! Seems like just yesterday I was heading to Scotland to start the program.
I've really enjoyed my time at each University, in each city and each country in different and distinct ways. It's been a privilege and joy to get to know and become friends with so many great people from so many different places in the program. And in each city to also meet so many other people from those places and others. My perceptions on so many small things have changed as result of the simple exchange of ideas, ways, and daily life with such a varied and genuine group of people.
It's fairly cheesy, but I've never been with group of people that seems to care and share so much with each other. There really is very little selfishness. When people are sick, it seems there is always someone there bringing them lunch, dinner or making them a soup (like 3 weeks ago when Claudia made me potato soup!). Dinners are often cooked and shared with whatever is left in everyone's fridge, or when someone has a recipe or wants to cook something from home, they prepare it for more than people is necessary and invite whoever is around, and nobody is ever really hesitant to give up what they have for the group or to someone who needs it. Like a second family in some ways.
It is a dynamic and trait that I can't say I experienced very much in college at home or thereafter. In the fraternity in college and we helped each other out which I have plenty of good memories from, but that was in some ways a mutually exclusive endeavor and the service/volunteering was organizationally driven (like when you work for the company and they say they need to 'Give Back', you know it's just a load of self-driven marketing crap). I did a lot of volunteer work after college which was much certainly more genuine, but I still felt my stuff was my stuff most of the time and my time was my time. However, in regards to simple small things like sharing and helping amongst friends, acquaintances, and strangers, I'm not sure that was there as much. At the very least, it wasn't so evident or well expressed.
Traveling (outside of the program), in fact, for 3 months this summer and 6 last year, also helped a lot. Staying with many friends from the program and many random couchsurfers, I learned that, although a valuable use of time, you don't necessarily need to go to a homeless shelter to feel good about helping out. Instead you can learn a lot about just being a good, genuine person by experiencing others selflessly give to you their time, space, thoughts, and belongings in exchange for simple intangibles like knowledge, ideas, and friendship (as opposed to the bullet point volunteering gives you in an interview). It is the mentality that is the hardest part to acquire I believe. And that mentality translates to small things, like trying not to stare at the ground and pretend to ignore someone asking for money with your headphones in (guilty myself).... maybe even actually look at them. Or, realize it's okay to share and give up some things if it is a bit of an inconvenience. Or, being less selfish with your time and spending that extra little time helping a stranger out getting to their destination and even talking or trying to get to know them. I know first hand many many times, when a random person is unusually friendly or helpful, it can brighten your day and change your perception, and motivate you to do the same.
In the end, I am really glad I have met and became friends the last 3 semesters with such positive people who have such big hearts and have been a bit of a role model while helping me see things in new ways. And the people and hosts I have had while traveling, as I always say, give me confidence that there is still plenty of good people out there. I try to always remember this when I see people in public that get aggravated over tiny things. The world would be better if everyone was a little less cold, stressed, scared of changing, and seriously self-motivated (however idealistic that statement may be).
I've really enjoyed my time at each University, in each city and each country in different and distinct ways. It's been a privilege and joy to get to know and become friends with so many great people from so many different places in the program. And in each city to also meet so many other people from those places and others. My perceptions on so many small things have changed as result of the simple exchange of ideas, ways, and daily life with such a varied and genuine group of people.
It's fairly cheesy, but I've never been with group of people that seems to care and share so much with each other. There really is very little selfishness. When people are sick, it seems there is always someone there bringing them lunch, dinner or making them a soup (like 3 weeks ago when Claudia made me potato soup!). Dinners are often cooked and shared with whatever is left in everyone's fridge, or when someone has a recipe or wants to cook something from home, they prepare it for more than people is necessary and invite whoever is around, and nobody is ever really hesitant to give up what they have for the group or to someone who needs it. Like a second family in some ways.
It is a dynamic and trait that I can't say I experienced very much in college at home or thereafter. In the fraternity in college and we helped each other out which I have plenty of good memories from, but that was in some ways a mutually exclusive endeavor and the service/volunteering was organizationally driven (like when you work for the company and they say they need to 'Give Back', you know it's just a load of self-driven marketing crap). I did a lot of volunteer work after college which was much certainly more genuine, but I still felt my stuff was my stuff most of the time and my time was my time. However, in regards to simple small things like sharing and helping amongst friends, acquaintances, and strangers, I'm not sure that was there as much. At the very least, it wasn't so evident or well expressed.
Traveling (outside of the program), in fact, for 3 months this summer and 6 last year, also helped a lot. Staying with many friends from the program and many random couchsurfers, I learned that, although a valuable use of time, you don't necessarily need to go to a homeless shelter to feel good about helping out. Instead you can learn a lot about just being a good, genuine person by experiencing others selflessly give to you their time, space, thoughts, and belongings in exchange for simple intangibles like knowledge, ideas, and friendship (as opposed to the bullet point volunteering gives you in an interview). It is the mentality that is the hardest part to acquire I believe. And that mentality translates to small things, like trying not to stare at the ground and pretend to ignore someone asking for money with your headphones in (guilty myself).... maybe even actually look at them. Or, realize it's okay to share and give up some things if it is a bit of an inconvenience. Or, being less selfish with your time and spending that extra little time helping a stranger out getting to their destination and even talking or trying to get to know them. I know first hand many many times, when a random person is unusually friendly or helpful, it can brighten your day and change your perception, and motivate you to do the same.
In the end, I am really glad I have met and became friends the last 3 semesters with such positive people who have such big hearts and have been a bit of a role model while helping me see things in new ways. And the people and hosts I have had while traveling, as I always say, give me confidence that there is still plenty of good people out there. I try to always remember this when I see people in public that get aggravated over tiny things. The world would be better if everyone was a little less cold, stressed, scared of changing, and seriously self-motivated (however idealistic that statement may be).
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Time for Sleep
Last week, while rushing to finish a group report whose due date was moved forward several weeks on us in the midst of very full exam period, in a midnight attemp to squeeze at least an hour or more of work in, I went for the English tea. Pouring some milk in, I jumped when I realized the milk was orange. Yup, I poured orange juice into my tea. Time to go to sleep...
Monday, December 19, 2011
The Hugo
Frituurs (French fry stands) in Belgium are generally filled with heart attack inducing mystery foods. The Hugo might just be the epiphany of junk food. Dennis, Netsanet, & I purchased burgers and split a Hugo between the three of us. We were easily defeated by Sir Hugo. Fries topped with mayonnaise, fried sausage chunks, cripsy fried onions, a brown sauce, and god knows what else.
The first step in eating a Hugo is to push aside all your morals, ethics, and any previous concern for the welfare of your body. Then, after tasting it, you can actually say "Wow, although it looks like crap, the taste is surprisingly decent!" After that, you must give your arteries at least a 1 year vacation from further Hugo consumption.
Maybe The Hugo is Belgium's attempt to match Scotland for food inferiority?
The first step in eating a Hugo is to push aside all your morals, ethics, and any previous concern for the welfare of your body. Then, after tasting it, you can actually say "Wow, although it looks like crap, the taste is surprisingly decent!" After that, you must give your arteries at least a 1 year vacation from further Hugo consumption.
Maybe The Hugo is Belgium's attempt to match Scotland for food inferiority?
The Hugo - Junk food pinnacle. |
Labels:
Belgian Fries,
Frituur,
Gent,
The Hugo
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Ethiopian Food Huzzahh!!!!!
I already blogged on this...but here we are with our recently purchased goat. |
MAAANNNNGO |
Sanit barraged by the goat herd being shuttled to the market |
You are officially a winner if you cook a spectacular meal in this kitchen. |
A market in Bahir Dar. Spice & Beans section. |
Unroasted coffee beans (the only way it's sold) |
injera with some fried chicken and rice. Dang, that was a good meal |
A spice stall at the market. |
Chuchu's mom makes injera in this every 3 or 4 days, which takes 3 days and last about the same amount of time. If you don't make it yourself, most people seem to buy it fresh every day or two. |
Basket for storing injera. |
Another spread of things. |
Freshly made juice! Banana, Mango, and Avocado mixture. |
The liquidy stuff is shiro, a staple made from ground beans. |
Another good one. |
Sanit buying some fruits. |
Forget what this was...Looks cool though. |
I think this is Bayanet - a tray with a mix of prepared foods on it served over (and with!) injera |
Roasting coffee beans |
First Meal in Ethiopia! |
Firfir (chopped up and cooked injera, or what I jokingly refer to as eating Injera with more Injera) |
Tibs, I think? |
My first coffee! Roasting the beans, like usual. Let's just say neither instant coffee nor Starbucks exists or is sufficient here. |
Brilliant Coffee. 3 cups for coffee ceremony |
Netsanet debates whether to buy one of this guys chickens |
This is a very common grain/snack. The runners eat it. So do the monks. |
Labels:
Chicken Wat,
Ethiopia,
Ethiopian Food,
Injera,
Shiro
Monday, December 12, 2011
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Hooray for Stupidity!
Clearly, these guys are not accustomed to exercising their brain power in rationale ways, and neither are the people who are subjecting them to this. I saw them around lunch time the first time while bicycling to the city center. They were in droopy bed-sheet sized diapers and there was an ineffable stench eminating even as they were on the sidewalk and I was bicycling by in the street. Later that afternoon, I passed them again at another location in the city. This time, on the sidewalk kneeling on the ground with some bros standing in front them pondering like Pinky and the Brain what to do to them with a big grocery cart full of beer. Then, that evening, the pinnacle of stupidity:
Good to know that there are people of equal stupidity elsewhere in the world to match the morons in some fraternities and sororities in the US that do similar things. Hooray!
Labels:
Belgian Hazing,
Belgium Hazing,
Gent
Friday, December 2, 2011
Belgian Cuisine
Once you get past all the french fry stands and student cafeterias, Belgian/Flemish food is pretty simple and sturdy, while still managing to be quite delicious at times. Nothing too crazy or scintillating, but definitely in my opinion a step above the comfort food capitals of Scotland and Sweden.
Mystery foods at a frituur (french fry place). It's like one big science experiment. Barf. |
Gent Waffle. |
Probably made by Kraft, but hey, it's a funny name for a candy bar (I don't think it would fly in the US) |
Ah, a brown beer, fries with stew sauce, and a pincha (belgian code word for Jupiler). |
Stewed escargot with some spices in Oostend. |
Gent escargot. Defintely chewy in comparison to the French escargot. |
A Oostende waffle with speculoos sauce. Yum. |
En klein frite met andalus saus. The most famous thing outside the beer and waffles. |
There aren't many fresh food markets, but Belgians do seem to avoid the preservative loaded sliced breads, even at the supermarket. |
Gentse Stoverij. Steak stewed with brown beer and spices. Best dish in Gent. |
Peter enjoys a Gent dish, Gentse waterzooi, a creamy chicken & carrot/celery soup dish |
A Brugge waffle. Much softer and preferable to the Gent waffle imo. |
It is now pumpkin season, time for pumpkin soup! |
My favorite bakery in Gent |
Labels:
Belgian Food,
Belgian waffles,
Oostende,
Stoverij,
Waterzooi
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